父母對孩子的教育
教育孩子要使用正確的方法。首先,不要用“懶”“笨”“粗心”這種詞批評孩子,這樣很容易讓他們相信自己就是那樣的,於是限制了他們正常的發展。其次,即使是出於教育的目的,也千萬不能騙孩子,因為兒童缺少判斷能力,看到父母騙人,他們也會學著說假話。因此,在孩子小的時候,父母要幫他們養成好的生活、學習習慣。
很多時候孩子發脾氣是為了得到一些好處,父母不能因為孩子發脾氣就給他好處。如果我們不重視這個問題,他就容易養成發脾氣的壞習慣。習慣不是一天之內養成的 ,因此養成一個好習慣需要堅持 ,而改掉一個壞習慣也需要堅持。
教育不同性格的孩子要使用不同的辦法:對那些活潑的孩子要給他們一些限制;對那些害羞的孩子要經常鼓勵他們說出自己的看法,當他們這樣做了以後,要表揚他們,這樣才能讓每一個孩子都健康地發展。
最近很多人在看的電視劇《血色浪漫》,由著名演員孫儷主演,其實她小時候很普通,一說話就臉紅,回答老師問題的時候聲音也很小,是父母的鼓勵給了她信心,後來,她果然成為一位優秀的演員。
父母对孩子的教育
教育孩子要使用正确的方法。首先,不要用“懒”“笨”“粗心”这种词批评孩子,这样很容易让他们相信自己就是那样的,于是限制了他们正常的发展。其次,即使是出于教育的目的,也千万不能骗孩子,因为儿童缺少判断能力,看到父母骗人,他们也会学着说假话。因此,在孩子小的时候,父母要帮他们养成好的生活、学习习惯。
很多时候孩子发脾气是为了得到一些好处,父母不能因为孩子发脾气就给他好处。如果我们不重视这个问题,他就容易养成发脾气的坏习惯。 习惯不是一天之内养成的 ,因此养成一个好习惯需要坚持 ,而改掉一个坏习惯也需要坚持。
教育不同性格的孩子要使用不同的办法:对那些活泼的孩子要给他们一些限制;对那些害羞的孩子要经常鼓励他们说出自己的看法,当他们这样做了以后,要表扬他们,这样才能让每一个孩子都健康地发展。
最近很多人在看的电视剧《血色浪漫》,由著名演员孙俪主演,其实她小时候很普通,一说话就脸红,回答老师问题的时候声音也很小,是父母的鼓励给了她信心,后来,她果然成为一位优秀的演员。
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Parents' education towards their children
To educate a child you have to use the right method. First of all, do not criticize children with words like "lazy", "stupid" and "heedless", because it would be easy for them to believe that they are like that, limiting their normal development. Second, even for educational purposes, children should not be misled because they lack judgment and when they see their parents deceiving others, they will learn to tell lies. Therefore, when children are young, parents must help them develop good habits of life and study.
Often, when a child gets angry, it is to get something. Parents should not give him because he gets angry. If we do not pay attention to this problem, it will easily develop bad habits of anger. Habits do not develop in a day, so you have to persevere in the development of good habits and the elimination of bad habits.
To educate children of different personalities, you have to use different methods: you have to put limits on those who are active and often encourage those who are shy to express their opinions. When they do so, they must be congratulated. It is only in this way that we will let each child develop healthily.
Recently, many people watched the television series "The Blood Color Romance" featuring the famous actress Sun Li. In reality, she was very ordinary when she was a child. She blushed as soon as somebody spoke to her. She answered with a very small voice to the questions of her teachers. It was the encouragement of her parents that gave her confidence. Later, she really became an excellent actress.